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Be Your Own Dang Valentine!

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Today, I want you to be your *own* dang valentine! šŸ’˜


The reality is, SO many of us spend our time in service of others, and itā€™s incredibly easy to forget to take care of ourselves. Whether itā€™s a stressful season in life, or just a stressful Monday, we can all use a little reminder to love ourselves a bit more.

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So, what does self-care look like?


Well, it often means that we have to get over feelings of guilt for taking time to be selfish with things like our food choices, our movement choices, and saying ā€œnoā€ to that thing weā€™d love to do, but is literally TOO MUCH for our schedule. One person canā€™t do everything, and if we try, itā€™s crazy how quickly that can catch up to us. For me, I notice when Iā€™ve neglected self-care either when I get sick (seemingly ā€œout of the blueā€), or I wind up in the midst of anĀ eczemaĀ flare. These are telltale signs for me that Iā€™ve overdone it, and 9 times out of 10, if I go back and look at my planner in the weeks leading up to that illness or flare, the pages are FULL. Because, hereā€™s the thing: if you push yourself to that point, and wind up sick (or maybe you suffer with an autoimmune condition, too), and it knocks you out for days or weeks at a time, you physically CANā€™T be there for the people who need you in the healthiest way possible. So, focus on that self-care, gosh darnit! ā¤ļø This Valentineā€™s Day, do what it takes to love yourself first, so you can show up in the best way for everyone else you love. Note: If youā€™re struggling with figuring out how to make self-care a part of your routine, I can help! As a certified health coach, I help folks set realistic goals with compassion and grace ā€“ for all the components of wellness, self-care included. If youā€™re interested in getting that extra support, sign up for a one-on-one coaching session, or join my online community to connect with others looking to make a change right alongside you. You've got this!


This video was also shared via my Instagram account, @getrealwithamanda.

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Blog post cover image credit: freestocks.orgĀ onĀ Unsplash



Originally published February 14, 2019

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